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Simply ending a sentence with a question mark does not render it purely innocent. Finishing a statement with an upward inflection in the voice does not absolve it of all responsibilities. A question as a thing is a tool, a method for requesting information. Unfortunately, there is currently a pervasive trend of ending accusations with question marks in an attempt to excuse the attack as ‘merely a question’ or falsely ennoble it as a ‘search for the truth’.
A question, at its basest function, is a relatively simple thing. It is a method of seeking information we do not currently have. Questions can be quite simple. What time is it? Is it raining outside? What did you have for breakfast? Questions can be incredibly complicated. How can we cure cancer? Why do victims of spousal abuse stay with their abusers? What are the best sets of policies for leading an entire nation?
Even with the simplest or noblest of intentions seeking answers can be a complex and messy affair. The information we gain can be harmful instead of helpful, the person we are asking might not want to divulge an answer, the moment we are needing or wanting the information may be the worst possible moment to ask, the answers we are seeking may simply not yet exist to be found.